Dating advice
Dating advice from hello to the second date
How do you ask someone out without it getting awkward? What do you talk about on a first date? And when is hanging out actually a date? Honest answers, example texts and questions that make conversations easier.
Asking someone out
How, when and what to say.
How to ask someone out
The best way to ask someone out: one clear plan, a reason and an easy out. With 20 lines to copy.
Read →How to ask a guy out
Yes, you can ask him. How to tell if he's interested, what to say in person or over text and 22 lines to copy.
Read →Ask someone out over text
30 texts to ask someone out, from casual to cute to bold, plus Snapchat tips and what to reply to yes, no or “maybe”.
Read →Asking for a date on dating apps
When it's time to move from chat to a date on Hinge, Tinder and other apps, with example messages and safety tips.
Read →Date invitation
What a good date invite includes, plus 20 templates for a first date, date night, a surprise or a card.
Read →Will you go on a date with me?
25 cute ways to ask “Will you go on a date with me?”, with wording to copy and ideas for school, texting and crushes.
Read →Ask out a coworker
Company rules, the ask-once rule, what to say and how to keep things professional whatever the answer.
Read →How to ask someone to hang out
One plan, one day, one easy out. Plus 30 texts to ask friends, coworkers and crushes to hang out without sounding needy.
Read →Ask for a second date
When and how to ask for a second date: at the end of date one, the next day or over text. With 20 messages to copy.
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Questions to ask
So you never run out of things to talk about.
100 first date questions
Fun icebreakers, flirty and deep questions, the 21 questions game and how to ask without it feeling like an interview.
Read →Questions to ask your crush
100 questions sorted by vibe: easy texts, funny, cute, flirty, deep and a few that quietly say “I like you”.
Read →Deep questions to ask
56 meaningful questions about values, love, fears and dreams, with tips on timing and how to ask gently.
Read →This or that questions
100 this or that questions sorted by vibe, 25 would you rather questions for a date and four fun ways to play.
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The first date
Prep, outfits, topics and the moment after.
First date conversation topics
20 first date topics with openers you can use, topics to skip and simple tricks for when the conversation stalls.
Read →First date tips
Practical first date tips for before, during and after the date, including safety on app dates and texts to copy.
Read →First date mistakes
15 common first date don'ts with what to do instead, red flags vs. green flags and how to recover from a fumble.
Read →What to wear on a first date
First date outfit ideas by venue and weather, for every style and gender, plus a quick comfort check and what to skip.
Read →First date kiss
Is kissing on a first date okay? Signs to look for, how to ask, what to say if they say no and how to say no yourself.
Read →Who pays on a first date?
Who pays on a first date: five fair models, how to bring it up and exact lines for offering, splitting and saying thank you.
Read →First date nerves
Nervous for a first date? Practical things to do the day before, the hour before and during the date, plus lines to say it out loud.
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Dating, decoded
Rules, terms and reading between the lines.
The 3 date rule
What the 3 date rule means, where it came from (honestly: nobody knows) and why talking beats counting dates.
Read →Is it a date?
Signs it's a date (or not), what “asking someone out” really means and easy ways to find out without making it weird.
Read →How to turn down a date
25 kind, clear ways to say no to a date: in person, by text, after a first date or to a friend. No ghosting, no fake excuses.
Read →Text after first date
When to text after a first date and what to say: 30 messages for “that was great”, “not sure yet” and “not a match”.
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